Should Women Ask a Guy Out On a Date?

by | Nov 25, 2007 | Love & Relationship | 5 comments

There are two differing schools of thought on this. The first school advocates that the GUY should take the first initiatives and should call and ask the girl for a date.

should women ask a guy out on a date?

The other school, more apparent in recent times, has a more liberal view where either party may the first move, depending on the situation.


What if you wait for him to ask you out but he never does? Does it mean, he is not into you? Or is he plainly shy? Or he is a novice at the dating game and knows not what to do?


Through forums and interviews with men on the idea of being asked out on a date, the response is pretty positive. Most of the men I have spoken to actually welcome the idea.

should women ask a guy out on a date?

Like men, women also fear rejection when asking men out. They also risk being perceived as desperate, which would not necessarily be the case. Most men will think that you are sure of yourself and just getting what you want.


It also takes lots of pressure off men. A lot of men do not have a clue on dating women.

should women ask a guy out on a date?

If you feel that it’s a lot of hard work asking a guy out, you could drop some subtle hints. Make as if you are helping him to date you by ‘opening the door’.


You could try something like “how about we get together for coffee some time?” Leave your contact number and walk away. It might take a while before he calls. Two to three weeks lead time is normal, because he might be busy and have stuffs to handle.


There are no hard and fast rules and the best is to play by ear.

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